人与人之间缺少沟通,就像河的两岸没有贯通的桥梁。而善解人意,则是沟通人际关系的最好桥梁。善解人意,不应仅从文字上作善于揣摩人的心意去理解,其“善解”的“善”,也不能仅作善于解释它还应包含善心、善良的愿望这层意思。善解人意,首先要与人为善,善待他人,而后才能理解人 Lack of communication between people, like the two sides of the river there is no bridge. And understanding, it is the best bridge to communicate personal relationships. An understanding should not be understood only from the point of view of being good at trying to figure out people’s intentions. The “goodness” of “understanding” can not be interpreted merely as meaning of goodwill and goodwill. To be considerate, we must first be kind to others, treat others well, and then understand people