几个孩子一起游戏、玩耍,忽而一个孩子被另一个孩子推倒了,忽而一个孩子又被另一个孩子打哭了。本来孩子们一起游玩,应该和和睦睦,偏偏哭声四起,“告状”不息。为什么孩子们在一起时总会发生这样那样的侵犯行为呢?我们曾问过不少“打人”的孩子,回答的理由是多种多样的,但有一种回答却令人吃惊与费解,那就是“我打着玩的”。其实,“打人玩”看起来不寻常,细分析起来并不奇怪。有时孩子“打人”也只是一种“无意侵犯” Several children play together, play, and suddenly one child was overthrown by another child, and suddenly one child was crying by another child. Originally children should play together, and should be harmonious, but why crying everywhere, “complain ” endless. Why do children always get such violations when they are together? We have asked many “beaten” children for a variety of reasons, but one answer is surprising and puzzling That is “I’m playing.” In fact, “hit people play ” looks unusual, subtle analysis is not surprising. Sometimes the child “beaten ” is only a “unintentional invasion ”