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据《中国教育报》报道,一对身为工人的父母,负债为独生女购置钢琴,每天强令女儿练琴4个小时,并效法古人“悬梁刺股”。女儿疲倦得抬不起头,就用绳子将头发吊起,双手累得抬不起,就将双手吊起。在学琴中不堪重负又无半点乐趣的女儿终于操起剪刀,划破手腕,剪断肌腱……父母对子女期望值过高几乎成了整个社会的通病。那些望子成龙或望女成凤的父母为子女能成为自己期望中的人才,可谓呕心沥血。然而往往事与愿违,类似事件不胜枚举。曾经轰动一时的美国“超级神童”赛达斯刚一出世,身为教授的父亲就在他睡觉的小床周
According to China Education Daily, a pair of parents as workers, the debt for the only child purchase of the piano, forced her daughter practice four hours a day, and follow the ancients . Daughter tired can not lift his head, it will use the rope to lift the hair, his hands tired can not afford to lift his hands up. The overwhelmed daughter with the slightest pleasure in learning piano finally scissors, cut through the wrist, cut the tendons ... Expectations of their parents to children is almost a common problem in society as a whole. Those hopeful children or aspirations of the parents into their children can become their expectations of talent, can make concerted efforts. However, often contrary to expectations, a similar event is too numerous to mention. A once sensational American “super prodigy ” Saida Dasi just born, as a professor’s father in his bed a little bed week