下一次,当你试图安慰那些自尊较低(low self-esteem)的朋友时,你或许应该放弃使用那些激励性的话语,因为他们并不想听到这些。(译注:心理学中的自尊可以看作是一个人对自己的评价。低自尊是指对自己评价和期望较低,并不是说这个人不要脸。这一点和我们生活中所说的“自尊心”不同。)自尊较低的人对自己通常有着过度消极的评价。他们通常会把他人的批评、感情受挫、求职失败当成是自身缺乏能力的体现。而最近,加拿 The next time you try to reassure your low self-esteem friends, you probably should give up on motivational words because they do not want to hear about it. (Annotation: self-esteem in psychology can be regarded as a person’s own evaluation of low self-esteem refers to their own evaluation and low expectations, not to say that this person shameless, and this is what we call life Self-esteem. ") People with lower self-esteem usually have an overly negative opinion of themselves. They often regard other people’s criticism, frustration, job failure as a manifestation of their own lack of ability. And recently, Canada