我们在咨询室接待了女孩的妈妈,一位四十岁左右,看起来历经生活苦难而有些沧桑但又显慈爱的妇女。她应该是鼓起很大勇气走进来的,一方面因为过于担心孩子而想探知究竟,另一方面又为瞒着孩子偷偷来咨询而感到不安,她后来这样告诉我们。她的神情里有些无奈和焦虑,坐定之后,她开始和我们交流,她认为我的学生模样和仍然在校的生活,更可以理解和帮助一个初中的女孩子。我于是开始认真的 We received the girl’s mother in the counseling room, a woman who was around the age of 40 and who seemed to have experienced some vicissitudes but also a loving woman after suffering hardship in life. She should have come up with a lot of courage. On the one hand, she wanted to find out about being too worried about her children, and on the other hand she felt uneasy about consulting with her children secretly. She later told us so. She was feeling helpless and anxious. After she was seated, she started to talk to us. She thought that my students were still living in school and could understand and help a junior high school girl. I started to be serious