孩子在生活中难免说过一两次谎话,但这并不等于他们的道德品德就有多大问题,更不能推断他们想有意去欺骗谁,这大多是出于无奈,并不是他们愿意这样做。我曾接到一个初中学生的求助信。他在信中写道“:小时候,一个星期天的晚上,家里来了一位客人。看到他点火抽烟的姿势,我很好奇, It is unavoidable for a child to make a lie or two in life, but this does not mean that there is any problem with their moral character. Nor can they infer that they want to deceive anyone, mostly because of helplessness, not because they are willing to do so. I have received a letter of help from a junior high school student. He wrote in the letter: "When I was a kid, came a guest at home on a Sunday night, and I was curious when I saw him smoking a cigarette,