我有一个4岁半的独生女儿,办公室的同事们都说她长得逗人喜爱,我这当爸爸的也颇有同感。如此说来,并非应了“孩子看着自己的好”这句方言俗语,而是由于我对女孩的喜爱,并不亚于对男孩的钟爱。其实,真正喜爱我女儿的还是她的妈妈,这从她们母女二人形影不离、难分难舍的亲热劲中就可以略见一斑。美中不足的是,喜爱一旦失去了分寸,就会变成宠爱。别看这“喜爱”和“宠爱”只有一字之差, I have an only daughter who is 4 and a half years old. My colleagues in the office say that she looks cute and I share the same feeling with my father. In this case, it is not the dialect saying “the child looks at his own goodness”, but because of my love of the girl, no less than the love of the boy. In fact, the real favorite of my daughter or her mother, this is inseparable from their mother and daughter, difficult to distinguish between the intimacy can be seen. The fly in the ointment is that love once lost sense of proportion, it will become pet. Do not look at this “love ” and “love ” only one word difference,