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说来话长。那是1958年10月的一天,因一句戏言,生父把不满一周岁的我,送给了其同事（兼好友）,成了这位同事女儿的养子,从此,我的人生轨迹发生了根本性的转折。尽管养父母身边只有我一个“独苗”,视若掌上明珠,却从不娇生惯养。刚满16岁的我,被老两口毅然送到部队,我十分清楚,他们是要让我早日自强自立,防止养成依赖性。而我也没有辜负老人的期望,在同批战友中第一批人党、第一批提干,屡次任务都完成出色,成为重点培养的苗子。正当事业渐渐有成时,却祸从天降,一次偶然的车祸,使我腰椎压缩性骨折,转业回到了养父母的身边。 转眼十多年过去了,养父母先后因病去世。在他们病重时,把四十年前发生的事情告诉了我,但具体情况他们也说不太清。只有一点是肯定的,我出生在常州。在半信半疑中,我还是接受了这一事实。但是,为了让老人安度晚年,报答他们的养育之恩,我在作了初步了解之后,并没有急于寻找亲生父母,却把这件事深深埋在心底。养父母去世一年多后,埋在心底的寻亲心情终于喷涌出来,我一定要找到常州的亲人。
Long story. It was one day in October 1958, because of a joke that my biological father gave less than one year of my life to my colleague (friend) and became the adopted son of this colleague’s daughter. From then on, my life trajectory has been fundamental The turning point. Although only my adoptive parents a “single seedlings”, depending on the pearl, but never spoiled. At the age of 16, just now I was sent to the army by the couple. I know very well that they want me to be self-reliant as soon as possible and prevent the development of dependency. However, I did not live up to the expectations of the elderly people. The first batch of PFPs among the comrades in the same batch made the first batch of tasks completed with great accomplishments and became the seedlings for key training. Just as the cause of success has become successful, but disaster falls, a by accident, so that my lumbar vertebral compression fractures, transferred back to adoptive parents side. Blink of an eye ten years later, adoptive parents have died of illness. When they were ill they told me about what happened 40 years ago, but they also say nothing about the situation. Only one thing is for sure, I was born in Changzhou. In the dubious, I still accepted this fact. However, in order to reassure the elderly in their later years and repay their nourishment, I did not rush to look after my biological parents after deep understanding. However, I deeply buried it in my heart. More than a year after the adoptive parents died, the betrayal buried in the bottom of my heart finally spew out, I must find the relatives of Changzhou.