“江山易改,秉性难移”。这是中国的一句老话。确实,习惯的力量是相当顽固的。孩子的某些不良性格成了习惯,要改变也难。但这不是绝对的,心理学告诉我们,性格的形成受多方面因素的影响,既有先天的遗传因素,又有后天的社会环境等因素,它还是具有可塑性的。特别是孩子在童年和少年时期,更加需要家长有目的、有意识地培养其优良性格,注意扬长避短,强化其好的性格和品质,为谱写美好人生奠定坚实的基础。 “Jiangshan easy to change, disobedient.” This is an old Chinese saying. Indeed, the power of habit is quite stubborn. Some of the child’s bad character has become a habit, it is difficult to change. However, this is not absolute. Psychology tells us that the formation of personality is influenced by many factors, including both innate genetic factors and the acquired social environment. It is still plastic. Especially children in childhood and adolescence, more need parents purposefully and consciously cultivate their good character, pay attention to avoid weaknesses, strengthen their good character and quality, to write a better life and lay a solid foundation.