犟任性、不听话，是许多独生子女父母难以对付的一桩尴尬事。他们大惑不解：是孩子的祖父母宠坏了他（她），还是我们管教不力？冷落他、罚他、打他，苦口婆心、软硬兼施，该说的都说了，该做的都做了，但收效甚微。那么，到底该怎样对付任性的孩子呢？第一，对付任性行为严重 Irritability and disobedience are embarrassing things that many one-child parents find it hard to deal with. They are puzzled: is the child’s grandparents spoiled him (her), or our poor discipline? Outlaws him, punishes him, hits him, earnestly, both hard and soft, said all said, the doing has done, but with little success. So, how to deal with wayward children in the end it? First, deal with willful behavior