大凡为家长者都爱听别人夸奖自己孩子的“顺耳之言”亦即“好话”,不爱听别人批评自己孩子的“逆耳之言”,简言之为“坏话”。这也往住导致孩子只能听“好话”,不能听“坏话”。特别是当今每户人家都是一个独苗苗,有些家长往往不切实际地把自己的孩子估计得太高,常在亲友、邻居面前夸耀自己的孩子如何 Almost all parents love to hear other people compliment their children’s “pretexts” that is “good words,” do not like to hear others criticize their children’s “remarks”, in short, “bad talk.” This also led to live to children can only listen to “good words”, can not listen to “bad things.” In particular, every household today is a unique seedling. Some parents often unrealistically estimate their children too often, and often boast about their children in the presence of relatives and friends.