合理的吃亏,合法的吃亏,其实是在积善行德,是对自身的修炼。作为商业社会中的一员,难免会遭遇一些流言蜚语。偶尔,会有一些对自己不利的评价,我从来都是淡然处之,不与人针锋相对。所谓退一步海阔天空。不过,这种忍让,并不意味着是任人欺负。对于一些怀有恶意的指责,我非常反感。也许,很多人面对这种情况,会进行非常激烈的反驳。而我的处理方式则相对柔和,属于绵里藏针:不会把话说得很绝,但绝对是让对方可以琢磨的。我曾经在美国待了十年,直到现在,我对于美国人的AA制依然非常不适应。还是在学校读书的时候, Reasonable loss, the legitimate disadvantage, in fact, good deeds, is their own practice. As a member of the business community, will inevitably encounter some gossip. Occasionally, there will be some unfavorable evaluation of myself, I have always been indifferent, not tit-tat. The so-called step back to a brighter future. However, such patience does not mean that any person is bullied. For some malicious accusations, I am very upset. Perhaps many people face this situation, will be very fierce rebuttal. My approach is relatively soft, belong to Mian Li Tibetan needle: not to speak absolutely, but definitely let each other pondering. I have been in the United States for ten years, until now, I still do not fit the American AA system. Still studying in school,