由于幼儿的心理和生理发育尚未完全成熟,他们比较依赖于自己的父母和长辈。由于受特定社会环境的影响,父母对自己的孩子也是关爱倍加,事事包办。这样直接导致的结果就是现在很多幼儿都是饭来张口、衣来伸手,生活自理能力差,意志薄弱。但是幼儿最终要离开父母的怀抱去适应竞争激烈的社会,那么他们就需要具备良好的自理能力和独立思考、独立选择、独立解决问题的能力。所以我们培养幼儿的首要任务就是要提高他们独立自主解决问题的能力。我们该放手时就一定要放手,我们要 Because children’s mental and physical development are not yet fully mature, they rely more on their parents and elders. Due to the impact of a particular social environment, parents also care for their children doubled, everything goes hand in hand. The result of this direct result is that many children are now come to eat rice, clothing to reach out, poor self-care ability, weak will. However, young children eventually have to leave their parents’ arms to adapt to a competitive society, so they need good self-care skills and the ability to think independently, choose independently and solve problems independently. Therefore, the primary task of nurturing young children is to enhance their ability to solve problems independently. We must let go when we let go, we want