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胆小、懦弱、自私、霸道、任性、自卑、不诚实……你会给孩子贴上类似的标签吗?你知道小小的标签,会传递给孩子多么消极的暗示吗?在教育孩子的过程中,很多父母会不自觉地给孩子贴各种标签:胆小、懦弱、自私、霸道、任性、自卑、不诚实等,因为他们有一种根深蒂固的观念:帮助孩子成长的最好方式是不断告诉孩子什么做得不对,只有批评孩子的缺点和不足,孩子才会改进。如训斥孩子撒谎,他就会变得诚实;训斥孩子胆小,他就会变得勇敢;训斥孩子懒惰,他就会变得勤快,等等。然而,事实果真如此吗?
Timid, cowardly, selfish, overbearing, self-willed, inferiority, dishonest ... Would you label the child a similar label? Do you know the little negatives that a small label will convey to a child? In the process of educating a child Many parents unconsciously label their children with timid, cowardly, selfish, overbearing, self-willed, inferiority, dishonesty, etc. because they have a deep-seated idea that the best way to help your child grow is to keep telling What children do wrong, only criticize the child’s shortcomings and deficiencies, children will improve. He will become honest if he scolded the child for lying; he will become brave when he reprimands the child for being coward; he will become diligent when he reprimands the child for being lazy and so forth. However, the fact is true?