问:有人说教育孩子生活自理,有时要让步,有时要不让步,这分寸怎么掌握呢?答:简单说,非原则的要让步,原则的要不让步。比如,孩子什么时候开始做作业,这就是非原则的问题。作业做得怎么样,这就是原则问题。他什么时候开始做作业,你让他自己作主,不要过多干预。早一点,他抓得 Q: Some people say that to educate children to take care of themselves, and sometimes to make concessions, and sometimes make concessions, how is it measured? A: In simple terms, non-principles should be concessions and principles should not be concessions. For example, when a child starts to do homework, this is a non-principle question. Homework how, this is the principle problem. When did he start his homework, you make his own decision, do not over-interfere. A little earlier, he grabbed