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如果你现在发现自己的育儿遇到困境,那是不是因为你成了某种类型的父母?这又是否与自己的童年有关?很多时候,孩子的一句话,一个行为,或者一个生活场景,都会瞬间将我们带回自己的童年。我们感受的也不再是孩子现在感受到的,而是自己曾经感受到的。心中的某种情绪被激活,让我们深深陷入了自己童年的阴影里。所以,在心理学上,有句话叫:“有什么样的童年,就有什么样的父母。”当然,要把孩提时代的诸多往事抛之脑后是非常困难的,每个人在童年几乎都有过受伤的经历。这些伤痕会潜意识地让我们分不清是自己的
If you now find yourself in child-rearing difficulties, it is not because you have become a certain type of parents? Is this related to their own childhood? Many times, a child’s words, a behavior, or a scene of life, will Instantly bring us back to our childhood. What we feel is no longer what our children now feel, but what they once felt. Some kind of emotion in my heart is activated, leaving us deep into the shadow of my childhood. Therefore, in psychology, there is a saying: “What kind of childhood, what kind of parents. ” Of course, it is very difficult to put many childhood kid memories, everyone in the Almost all my childhood experiences have been injured. These scars will subconsciously make us indistinguishable