常听学生说:“我们要有独立意识!”也听家长说:“老师的话为什么都是圣旨?”许多家长也反映,子女上了初中,且不说辅导,连思想教育都困难了,甚至无从下手。仔细品味一番,双方均有道理。前者也许是某些中学生颇感压抑的一种呼吁,也可能是一种或合理或暂觉盲目的人生渴望。后者显然是某些家长“教子不力”的一种慨叹。为什么有如此强烈的对立呢?人们熟知,独生子女的普遍化增加了教育的难度,“家教”的观念与方式 Listen to the students often say: “We must have independent awareness!” Also listen to the parents said: “Why the teacher’s words are the imperial edict?” Many parents also reflect their children on the junior high school, not to mention counseling, and even ideological education Difficult, or even impossible to start. Savor carefully, both make sense. The former may be appealing to some of the students who are quite depressed. They may also be a kind of rational or temporary blind desire for life. The latter is obviously a lament for some parents, “poor teaching of children”. Why is there such a strong opposition? It is well known that the prevalence of only-child increases the difficulty of education, and the concept and method of “tutoring”