美国父母对子女的疼爱是“任期制”,主要是在子女没有长大成人以前。子女到了18岁或高中毕业,父母的责任基本完成。子女或者离家上大学(父母只提供学费甚至只提供学费的一部分,其余靠学生自己打工挣钱),或者找工作独立生活。子女独立特别是成家以后,同父母不论在经济上、法律上 The love of parents in the United States for children is a “term system”, mainly before the children grow up. When the children reached the age of 18 or graduated from high school, the responsibility of the parents was basically completed. Children either leave their homes and go to college (parents only provide tuition fees or even only part of the tuition fees, and the rest rely on the students themselves to work and earn money), or find a job to live independently. After the independence of children, especially when they are married, their parents are economically and legally