和孩子一块出去,经常会听到亲人朋友这样的话:这孩子真随你啊!这个“随”字,既有长相的相像,也有性格的相似。你有没有考虑过这样一个问题:孩子和自己的性格有多少相似之处呢?在这种思想的驱使下,我绘制了一张表格,左面各栏是女儿的性格特点,包括优点和缺点,右边一栏是我自己的性格特点。我认真如实地填写,尽量做到详细,并征求亲友的意见,从而更加公正。 With a child out, often hear the words of friends and relatives: This child really with you! This “with ” character, both looks like, but also similar in character. Have you ever considered the question of how much the child resembles one’s own personality? Driven by this thinking, I charted a form with the left hand column of the daughter’s personality traits, including strengths and weaknesses, The right column is my own personality. I have to fill in the letter carefully, try to be as detailed as possible, and solicit the opinions of relatives and friends so as to be more just.