近年来,“暖男”成为新好男人的一种典型模式,受到广大女性的诚挚欢迎与热烈追捧。这一现象从侧面反映出现代女性在社会分工、角色定位、性别意识等方面产生了新的期待与呼声。情感渴求的背后是相应情感的缺失。从角色象征与心理功能的角度对之加以分析,将有助于我们深入了解当代女性的恋爱心理与精神需求。(一)衣服角色:温暖功能传统中医理论认为,女性体质属阴(男 In recent years, “warm man ” has become a typical model of a new man, received by the majority of women’s sincere welcome and warm pursuit. This phenomenon reflects from the side of modern women in the social division of labor, the role of positioning, gender awareness and other aspects of the new expectations and voices. Behind the emotional craving is the lack of corresponding emotions. From the perspective of role symbol and psychological function, it will help us understand deeply the love psychology and spiritual needs of contemporary women. (A) the role of clothes: warm traditional Chinese medicine theory that the female body is Yin (male