何为“忍”?将满腹怨气用一团和气来掩饰就是忍。 在日常生活中,恼火、生气、愤怒的经历人皆有之。但是如何处理别人的意见和不满,却因人而异。有的人能够直截了当地表达自己的态度,据理力争;有的人采用委婉的表达方式,先冷处理,日后再寻找机会交流;还有的人则不表达出来,忍气吞声,从此与对方心有间隙,感情疏远,且称为敬而远之好了。 What is “forbearance”? Will be full of grievances with a group of breath to cover up is forbearance. In daily life, angry, angry, angry experiences everyone. But how to deal with other people’s opinions and dissatisfaction varies from person to person. Some people can express themselves in a straightforward manner and strive to justify others. Some people use euphemism to express themselves, deal with them coldly, and then look for opportunities to exchange ideas. Others do not express themselves and swallow their voices, , Feeling alienated, and called good at arm’s length.