初次与人交往,有的人便能给人留下深刻的印象甚至终身难忘,有的人却似过眼烟云不能给人留下半点记忆,这就是第一印象作用不同的结果。心理学实验表明,人际交往中,双方接触的前3分钟是形成直觉至关重要的时间区域,这3分钟的知觉如何,会一直影响到以后交往相当长的一段时间甚至交往的全过程。这说明,人们常常借助第一印象来对他人的学识、涵养、风度、气质乃至人品进行推测和评估,也就是把第一次 For the first time interacting with others, some people can give people a deep impression or even lifelong memorandum, while others seem over the eye can not give the slightest memory, which is the result of the first impression of different roles. Psychological experiments show that in the interpersonal communication, the first three minutes of contact between the two sides are the time zones that form an important point of intuition. How these three minutes of perception affect the whole process of long-term engagement and even future contacts. This shows that people often use the first impression to others knowledge, conservation, demeanor, temperament and even the character speculation and assessment, that is, the first