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在你忙着去约会的路上,假如有位骑车赶路的年轻人不小心碰掉了你手里的鲜花,并且没来得及停车就让车从它们身上压过去了,这时你该怎么办?把年轻人叫住,然后暴力解决或者唇枪舌战一场吗?接下来的后果呢?你不仅仅约会迟到了,而且约会的好心情也被那个撞花事件搞得一团糟。最后,也许你会和女友不欢而散,甚至为此郁郁寡欢好几天。在生活中,很多时候发生的一些不愉快的事情都不是我们能够预料到并且能掌控得了的,既然如此,我们为什么还要为打翻的牛奶感到难过呢?让已经发生的一切成为过去,积极寻求解决那件事情的办法,这样才会让生活不再笼罩在不愉快当中。读下面这篇《90/10法则》,相信你会受益匪浅。
If you are busy on your way to an appointment, if a young man on a bike ride accidentally touches the flowers in your hand and has not had time to stop and let the car pass over them, what should you do? Stop the young man, and then violently resolve or speak with one’s tongue? The next consequence is that you are not only dating late, but also the dating’s good mood is also a mess in the collision event. In the end, maybe you will be unhappy with your girlfriend, and you may even be depressed for days. In life, some of the unpleasant things that happen in a lot of times are not what we can expect and can control. Why is it that we feel sorry for the overturned milk? Let everything that has happened be a thing of the past and actively seek for it. The way to solve that problem will make life no longer shrouded in unhappiness. Read the following “90/10 rule”, I believe you will benefit a lot.