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侗族婚俗中,以前有“不落夫家”的风习。新郎新娘在举行婚礼的三天喜期内是不能同房的,新人的床铺要让给送亲的“皇客”睡。在新婚的三天里,“皇客”的权力最大,正如俗话所说“一块园地他最大,一堂佛像他为尊。”第三天,“皇客”又要带新娘一起回门,到娘屋里去打住。只有到了农忙季节,由夫家接去帮忙干活,这时方可夫妻同房。直到怀孕之后,才长住夫家。有的新娘,在娘家居住竟然长达数年之久。但在湘西南的新晃、芷江一带,情况却不相同:新婚三天夫妻就能同房。三天之后“回门”,吃过“转脚粑油茶”,便可长住夫家了。当地侗谚云:“吃了转脚粑,从此坐夫家。”正因为如此,这转脚粑油茶就办得非常隆重,场面生动,要连吃三次哩！
Dong marriage customs, before the “no husband’s home” style. The bride and groom in the wedding of three days happy period is not the same room, the new bed to let give the pro “emperor” sleep. In the first three days of marriage, the “imperial court” has the greatest power, as the saying goes, “One of the largest places in a park is a Buddha statue.” On the third day, the “imperial court” will bring the bride back together, The house to stop. Only to the busy season, picked up by the husband to help work, then the same room before the couple. Until after pregnancy, long stay husband home. Some brides, living in her home for as long as several years. However, in southwestern Hunan Sinko, Zhijiang area, the situation is not the same: the couple will be able to share the same room three days. Three days later, “back door”, eaten, “turn feet 粑 tea,” you can live longer husband’s family. The local Dong saying goes: “ate the turn of the feet, then sits at home.” Because of this, it turned out to be very solemn and elegant, lively scene, even to eat three miles!