在对孩子的教育中,若是夫妻双方互不理解,而彼此又总是一意孤行,那从开始出发就相悖的两条抛物线会越走越远,父母的背道而驰,最终只会让孩子彷徨无措。对于教育,针对不同年龄的孩子,妈妈和爸爸的想法有着明显的差异。婴幼儿期孩子的妈妈对于一个很小的玩具,也会在网络上寻找、比较,锲而不舍地搜寻有助于孩子发育的玩具的信息。这些妈妈认为,如果不为孩子做到这些,自己就是一个落后的妈妈。她们通常的想法是:我是真的想好好抚养孩子。我每天都会因为担心抚养不好孩子而害怕。所以我想先尽可能地给孩子他们想要的。如果不这样,我会感 In the education of children, if both spouses do not understand each other and always act in isolation, the two parabolas that go from the very beginning will run farther and farther apart. Their parents will run counter to their wishes and will eventually only make their children feel helpless. For education, children of different ages, the idea of ​​mother and father have a clear difference. Infants and toddlers’ mothers For a small toy, they also look for, compare, and persistently search for information on toys that help them develop. These mothers think that if they do not do this for their children, they are themselves a backward mother. Their usual idea is: I really want to raise children. I am scared every day for fear of raising poor children. So I want to give the children as much as they want. If not, I will feel