最初我们恋爱时,互相都很仰慕对方才华,两个人可以依偎着赏月吟诗一整晚,文科生嘛,这点特长总有的。随着婚龄增加,生活逐渐变样,现实生活的压力消磨了这些风雅与情趣。孩子降临更是让所有美好回忆随风飘走,我开始整天围绕锅台尿布忙碌,对老公的求欢几乎没什么精力应付。恰巧此刻他又升职,早出晚归不说,对我也越来越丧失耐心,取而代之的只剩严肃认真。即便偶尔来场亲密,也仿佛设定了固定程序般缺乏新意,久而久之冷漠 At first, when we were in love, each other admired each other’s talent, two people can cling to the poetry of the moon all night, liberal arts students, this specialty always. With the increase of marriage age, life gradually change, the pressure of real life to kill these elegance and taste. The advent of children is to let all the good memories of the wind drifting away, I started around the table around the diaper busy, almost no energy to meet her husband’s dedication. He happened to be promoted again at the moment, returning early and not returning to the evening, becoming more and more impatient with me, and replacing it with seriousness. Even occasionally come intimate, but also as if setting a fixed procedure as lack of new ideas, over time indifference