按照回族传统的婚俗,倘若有一对男女青年相互有情,须家长请媒人“提话”。女方同意后,由男方下聘礼和认亲,称作“开口礼”。男方父亲或母亲带着两盒红糖(红糖必须是圆形的,每两块为一盒,象征团圆美满)、一片香茶、一斤点心到媒人家里,和媒人一起前往女方家 According to the traditional marriage customs of the Hui people, if a pair of young men and women have mutual affection, parents should invite the matchmakers to “raise their voices.” After the woman agrees, the dowry ceremony and confirmation by the man are called “opening ceremonies.” Male father or mother with two boxes of brown sugar (brown sugar must be round, two for each box, a symbol of happy), a piece of tea, a pound of dessert to the matchmaker home, and the matchmaker went to the woman’s house