有这样一则故事。有个渔人有着一流捕鱼技术,被人们称为“渔王”。然而“渔王”年老的时候非常苦恼。因为他的三个儿子捕鱼技术都很平庸。于是他经常向人诉说心中的“苦恼”:“我真不明白,我捕鱼的技术这么好,我的儿子们为什么都这么差?我从她们懂事起就传授捕鱼技术给他们,从最基本的东西教起。一位路人听了他的诉说后,问:”你一直手把手地教他们吗?“”是的,为了让他们得到一流的捕鱼技术,我教得很仔细很耐心。“”他们一直跟随着你吗?“”为了让他们少走弯路,我一直让他们跟着我学。“路人说:”你只传授给了他们技术,却没传授给他们教训,没有教训与没有经验一样,都不能使人成大器!“ There is such a story. One fisherman has first-class fishing techniques and is known as the ”fisher king.“ However, ”Yuwang“ is very upset when he is old. Because his three sons are very mediocre fishing techniques. So he often tells people the ”distress“ in his heart: ”I really don’t understand why my fishing skills are so good. Why are my sons so bad? I taught them fishing techniques since they knew something. From the most basic things, a passer-by listened to his remarks and asked: “Have you taught them all the time?” “Yes, in order to get them first-class fishing techniques, I teach Very careful and patient. ”“Do they always follow you?”” To keep them from detours, I always let them follow me. “The passers-by said:” “You only taught them techniques, but they did not teach them lessons. There is no lesson and no experience can make people become great!”