真正能飞越大海的是笨拙的海鸥曾经有个孩子,总是有一个问题想不通:他的同桌总是考第一,而他总是排在中等。他问妈妈是不是自己比别人笨?他觉得自己和同桌一样认真听课、思考,一样认真地做作业,一样地勤奋努力,可是,为什么总比他落后?妈妈不知该怎么回答。因为她很清楚,人的智力确实是有差别的,考第一的人在学习方面就是比一般人的脑子灵活。对此她没对儿子这样说,因为她知道,如果说了,孩子也许就此认为自己是个愚笨的人。随着时间的推移,儿子快小学毕业了,虽然仍没赶上他的同桌,但他的成绩一直在提高。在一个假期中,妈妈带 Really can fly over the sea is a clumsy seagulls used to have a child, there is always a problem can not understand: his table is always the first test, and he is always ranked in the middle. He asked her mother is not himself stupid than others? He felt as seriously as at the same table, thinking, as hard as homework, as diligent, but why is always behind him? Mom do not know how to answer. Because she is very clear, people’s intelligence is indeed a difference, the test of the first person in learning is more flexible than the average person’s mind. She did not say this to her son because she knew that if she did, the child might think he was a stupid person. Over time, his son graduated from elementary school and although he has not yet caught up with his peers, his grades have been rising. In a holiday, Mommy takes