我的一个孩子小学四年级了,之前对自己的英语能力非常自豪,但一次期中测验及一次期末考试把他的自信心完全击溃了,之后不写作业、不努力学习的现象日益严重。我心里非常担忧,开始使用传统父母亲经常使用的方式——责备和批评,却发现情况越来越不对,于是我开始拼命想从书里找到答案。 One of my children, who is in the fourth grade of elementary school, was very proud of his English proficiency before. However, a midterm exam and a final exam completely ruined his self-confidence. Afterwards, he did not go homework or did not study hard day by day. I was very worried and began to use the usual methods used by traditional parents - blame and criticism, but found the situation worse and worse, so I started desperately trying to find the answer from the book.