有些父母过于重视孩子的学习结果，一旦看到孩子在某方面取得成绩或拿到某项荣誉证书，就认为孩子能够在这方面有大的发展前途。其实，孩子是一成长过程中的个体，许多方面还没有定型，即使在比赛中获得好成绩，也不一定表示孩子就特别喜欢这件事。况且，成绩和荣誉的获得常常? Some parents pay too much attention to their children’s learning outcomes. Once they see their children’s achievements in a certain field or get a certificate of honor, they think that children can have a great future in this regard. In fact, the child is a growing individual, many aspects have not yet finalized, even in the game to get good grades, does not necessarily mean that children are particularly fond of it. Moreover, the achievement and honor often get?