我们教师常跟学生家长打交道,常听到有的家长说:“我家教也够严的,孩子犯错,我总是打骂,可就是不见孩子好转!” 笔者认为,多责备、常打骂孩子并不等于家教严。所谓家教严应是指对孩子严于管理和教育,善于选择适当时间和地点,坚持不懈地引导孩子健康成长。例如,有的家长一听说儿女成绩不好就持棍操棒叫孩子跪下,大骂或狠揍一顿,孩子如果申辩,揍得更狠,骂得更 We teachers often deal with parents, parents often hear that: “I tutor is strict enough, children make mistakes, I always beat, but is not seen the child to improve! ” I think that more blame, often playing Scolding children does not mean that strict discipline. The so-called strict discipline refers to the strict management of children and education, be good at selecting the appropriate time and place, unswervingly guide the healthy growth of children. For example, some parents heard that their children did not perform well and held sticks and called their children to knelt, cursed or severely beaten, and if the children argued, they beat and ruthlessly, scolding even more