如果你那活泼好动的宝宝,吃巧克力时弄污了小手小脸,或是在雨后的水洼中乱踩而弄湿小裤小袄,你会怎样? 我们见得最多的是呵斥,有的是声色俱厉的呵斥:“你看看!刚给你洗了就弄成这样,真该打!”紧接着是一个狠劲把孩子拽过来,用手没好气地往孩子手脸和身上大擦一通,而本来兴高采烈的孩子,此刻却吓得傻呆呆,疑惧、委屈的双眼滚动着泪水……这景象似乎司空见惯,很少有人以为有什么不妥。然而,美国著名儿童心理学家怀特却由此入手,进行了细致入微的分析,提出了抚育儿童的正确方法。他写道:“如果一个两岁的孩子跑到母亲跟前,脸上带着欢快和兴奋的表情,衣服和手上沾满了巧克力,对此, If your lively baby, polluted little hands when eating chocolate, or mess in the puddles in the rain and wet small pants jacket, what would happen? We see most is scold, and some are Sizzling scolding: “You see! Just washed to get you so, it should be hit!” Followed by a ruthless pull the child over, hand snappily to the child face and body wipe a pass, The original elation of children, but now scared silly blankly, suspicious, wronged eyes rolling tears ... ... This scene seems commonplace, few people think there is anything wrong. However, the famous American psychologist Wright started his childcare and carried out meticulous analysis and put forward the correct way of raising children. He wrote: "If a two-year-old runs to her mother with a cheerful and excited expression on her face, her clothes and hands covered in chocolate,