我常拿儿子与邻居家同龄的小女孩相比,觉得人家的女儿乖巧又温柔;又把他与对门的小男孩相比,觉得人家的儿子聪明又懂事。于是,我着急又失望:怎么我的儿子就这么淘气,这么不懂事呢? 每天清晨一起来他就要“做作业”:拿起阿姨买的水彩笔,纸上画画、沙发上抹抹,不过瘾,再到床单上、墙壁上去涂涂。涂抹完了,便神气活现地要我们欣赏他那奇形怪状的小汽车、小蜗牛、小鸭游泳、小猪吃饭等等。这些画的内容不听他自己解释我们是无论如何也无法看懂的。 I often compare my son with the younger girl of the same age in his neighbors and feel that the daughters of his family are well-behaved and gentle; and compare him with the young boy who touches the door, thinking that his son is clever and sensible. So, I was anxious and disappointed: how my son is so naughty, so naive? Every morning together he will “do homework”: picked up aunt bought watercolor pencils, drawing on paper, wiping the sofa, Not fun, then to the sheets, painted on the walls. After the smear is over, we can vividly show us his admiration for his bizarre car, a small snail, a duckling, a piglet and more. The contents of these paintings do not listen to himself explain that we can not understand anyway.