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不论是初次见面还是早已熟识,在谈话时,我们通常都会谈论自己感兴趣或关心的话题。然而人的心理实际上并不这样单纯。无可否认,有些人会毫不隐瞒地将心中的想法,借着话题述说出来,对于这种人,我们就没有必要运用深层心理学的理论了。至于那些不直接将关心的事或兴趣表示出来,而谈些全然无关的话题的人,意味着心中具有很深的自卑感和欲求不满。通过话题来发挥深层心理学效力的方法,大致可分为两种,一是从话题的内容中探讨对方心理的方法,一是从话题的展开中探讨对方心理的方法。这两种方法如果能同时运用,效益会更大。在此首先就话题的内容方面来加以叙述。
Whether you meet for the first time or are already familiar, we usually talk about topics of interest or concern when we talk. However, human psychology is actually not so simple. Admittedly, some people will express their thoughts without any concealment, and we will not need to apply the theory of deep psychology to such people. As for those who do not directly express their concern or interest, talking about totally unrelated topics means that they have deep sense of inferiority and dissatisfaction with their hearts. The way to exert the deep psychology effectiveness through the topic can be roughly divided into two kinds. One is to explore each other’s psychological methods from the content of the topic. The other is to explore each other’s psychological methods from the start of the topic. If these two methods can be used at the same time, the benefits will be greater. Here to first narrate the content of the topic.