有许多父母时常利用奖励的办法,来促进孩子主动自觉的意愿。的确,有时候适当地奖励可以激发起孩子的上进心,然而,如果奖励的方式不当,也会造成相反效果,甚至会使孩子失去主动自觉的精神。因此,奖励除了正面的鼓励外,一旦使用不当,也会产生负面的影响。例如,父母为了促使孩子认 There are many ways parents often use rewards to promote a child’s willingness to take the initiative. Indeed, sometimes proper rewards can motivate motivated children, however, if they are not properly rewarded, they can have the opposite effect and can even cause them to lose their sense of initiative. Therefore, in addition to the positive encouragement incentives, once used improperly, will have a negative impact. For example, parents make children recognize