有一位读者来信诉说:“我自幼性格内向,不多言语,怕见人。家长的“正统”教育是:听话、守规矩、专心学习、不管其它事,不要让人讲闲话。因此,从小就很少与外界接触,上学后与同学接触少,见到老师就心慌脸红,见到女同学更是面红耳赤、局促不安。去年大专毕业后,分配在工厂工作,上班从不 One reader wrote to me: “I was introverted, not many words, afraid to see people.” Orthodox "education is: obedient, obey rules, concentrate on learning, regardless of other things, do not let people gossip .So, from childhood Very few contacts with the outside world, less contact with classmates after school, to see the teacher flustered, to see the female students even flushed and clumsy.After graduating from college last year, assigned to work in the factory, to work never