要毁掉一个孩子,首先要毁掉他的自尊。家长如采用以下方法,就能够成功地毁掉孩子的自尊。1.让孩子觉得自己什么都不行,没人赏识他。例如,说他学习不行、长相不行、交际不行、干家务不行,说他马虎、粗心,让家人受累……总之,让他觉得自己没有行的地方。2.经常拿比他行的人刺激他。例如,这种话要时常挂在嘴边:“看人家××,从不让父母操心!”这类话最具打击力和摧毁力,是毁孩子的王牌语录。 To destroy a child, first of all to destroy his self-esteem. Parents can successfully destroy their child’s self-esteem by using the following methods. Let the children feel that they do nothing, no one appreciates him. For example, he said he could not learn, did not look good, not communicative, not doing housework, saying he careless, careless, so that family involvement ... In short, let him feel that they did not work place. 2. He is often stimulated by someone other than him. For example, such words should often talk about: “See others × ×, never let parents worry!” Such words most striking force and destructive power, is the destruction of children’s trump card.