在日常生活中,孩子常常向爸爸、妈妈和其他亲人提各种各样的问题,家长对待孩子的问题不予理睬或斥其罗嗦固然是不对的,直接回答所提的问题也未必妥当。有远见的家长常常诱导和帮助孩子自己去思考探索。他们甚至在孩子并未提问的情况下也能主动激疑引趣,并进而引导孩子去解决问题。这样做不仅能培养分析问题解决问题的能力(包括发展孩子的思维能力和学会解决各种问题的方法),而且能帮助孩子形成独立的人格,减少对成人的依赖性。但是,直接告诉答案往往比较容易,引导孩子自 In daily life, children often ask parents, mums and other relatives a variety of problems. It is wrong for parents to ignore their children’s questions or repent their words. It is not necessarily right to directly answer the questions raised. Far-sighted parents often induce and help their children to think and explore. Even when their children do not ask questions, they can take the initiative to stir up suspicion and lead the children to solve the problem. Doing so not only fosters the ability to analyze problems to solve problems (including developing children’s thinking skills and learning how to solve problems), but also helps children to form independent personalities and reduce their dependence on adults. However, it is often easier to tell the answer directly