俗话说,响鼓不用重锤,好马不用鞭催。说的是有出息的孩子,不用刻意去教。换句话说就是生而知之,而不是教而知之。这样的观点在我国盛行数千年,甚至文革时的血统论,也没跑出这个俗套。我对此论颇不以为然,我对我的儿子向来是严加管教, As the saying goes, no drum hammer, a good horse without whipping. That is promising children, do not have to deliberately teach. In other words, it is born, not taught. Such a view prevailed in our country for thousands of years, and even the theory of descent during the Cultural Revolution did not run out of this stereotype. I quite disagree with this, I have always been strict discipline to my son,