“中国的妈妈确实非常辛苦,也非常值得尊敬。中国妈妈的辛苦一方面源于我们教育资源的不均衡,妈妈们不得不为孩子的升学而担忧;另一方面也源于中国家长‘望子成龙’的狭隘的教育价值观,妈妈们的教育在一定程度上是过度的。”这是中国青少年研究中心副研究员洪明的观点。(2014年5月12日《新京报》)要在教育上把子女教得更出色,出发点是好的。教育从某种角度来说是很难的,没有一个统一的标准,家长们往往容易对它索取过度、诠释过度。作为一个中国妈妈,笔者认为,是否过度还要一分为二的去看。因为不同的孩子有不同的教育需求。 “China’s mum is indeed very hard and very respectable.” The hard work of Chinese mum originated from the unbalance of our educational resources, mothers had to worry about their children’s education, and on the other hand, ’Narrow educational values, the education of mothers is to some extent excessive.’ "This is the view of Hong Ming, an associate researcher at the China Youth Research Center. (The Beijing Newspaper, May 12, 2014) To teach children better about education, the starting point is good. Education is difficult in some ways. Without a single standard, parents tend to over-claim and over-interpret it. As a Chinese mom, I believe that whether it is excessive or not to see the second. Because different children have different educational needs.