16岁时,我与父母生活在南非,住在德班城外我爷爷建立的“凤凰村”里,这个村落距离城市18英里(1英里约合1．6公里),周围是一片片甘蔗种植园。有一天,父亲要我开车送他到城里,他要开一天的会。那天清晨,我把父亲送到开会地点后,他对我说:“下午5点来这里接我。” At age 16, I lived with my parents in South Africa, living in “Phoenix Village,” built by my grandparents outside Durban, 18 miles from the city (1 mile or 1.6 km) and surrounded by sugarcane plantings garden. One day, my father asked me to drive him to the city and he will have a day’s meeting. Early that morning, after sending my father to the meeting place, he said to me, “Pick me up here at 5 o’clock.”