青年期所需要面对的一项心理课题就是如何跟自己的父母保持适当的关系。从心理发展的观点说来,当子女还幼小,处于婴儿或幼儿的阶段,父母的主要职责是“抚养”孩子,喂食、照顾、保护,使幼小的孩子能感到安全、舒适,健康成长。当婴儿到了孩童阶段,除了继续养育以外,父母还要学会“管教”,帮助孩子知道什么是好的,什么是不好的事;什么是可以做,什么是不可以做的事;指导孩子学会控制自己的欲望而去配合周围 A psychological issue facing adolescence is how to maintain an appropriate relationship with your parents. From a psychological development point of view, when children are still young and in infancy or early childhood, parents’ main duty is to “raise children, feed, care and protect them so that young children can feel safe, comfortable and healthy. When the baby reaches the stage of childhood, besides continuing to raise, parents should also learn to ”discipline" to help children know what is good and what is not good; what can be done and what can not be done; and guide children to learn Control their own desires and go with the surrounding