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陕西省西安市一家长来信说:我儿子11岁,上小学。小时候,奶奶带他,很宠。小学二年级时,儿子回到我们父母身边。可是发现他有许多不好的习惯,不爱学习,不听话,在学校不守纪律,在家作业拖拉……无规矩不成方圆,我开始严厉管教。没做完作业,不准他出去玩:成绩退步,不听话,要惩罚。这样一来,儿子怕我。我知道,这样不好,但怎样使儿子不怕我又听我的呢?
A letter from a parent in Xi’an, Shaanxi Province, said: My son is 11 years old and attends primary school. As a child, my grandmother took him, very pet. When I was in second grade, my son returned to our parents. But he found many bad habits, do not love to learn, disobedient, unruly in school, homework drag ... no rules no standards, I began to discipline. Did not finish homework, not allowed him to go out to play: Results regress, disobedient, to punish. As a result, my son is afraid of me. I know this is not good, but how to make my son is not afraid I listen to me?