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你欣赏你的孩子吗?我问过不少家长,他们大多数“摇头”以答。也许你以为,这只是中国家长谦虚的习惯,不善在人前称赞自己孩子的优点。但笔者新近的一项研究令人震惊:据对杭州市4所小学500多名4—6年级学生调查。及对浙江省1000多封小学生信件分析,结果发现竟有80％学生为“父母不喜欢我”经常烦恼。一个4年级的小学生问:“为什么我小时候妈妈非常喜欢我,可我渐渐地长大了,妈妈也就越来越不喜
Do you appreciate your children? I asked a lot of parents, most of them “shake their heads” to answer. Perhaps you think that this is only the modesty of Chinese parents, not good before praising the merits of their children. However, a recent study by the author was alarming: According to a survey of more than 500 students in grades 4-6 in 4 primary schools in Hangzhou City. As well as a letter analysis of more than 1,000 elementary school students in Zhejiang Province, 80% of students often find it troublesome that their parents do not like me. A grade 4 pupil asks: "Why did I like me when I was little, but I grew up and my mom became more and more unhappy