如今家长们对独生子女大多娇惯,对孩子们提出的各种要求,总是“闻风而动”地“快速服务”,尽可能及时满足他们。日久天长,孩子们在十分舒适顺利的环境里生活惯了,意志情感方面可能象“缺钙”似地脆弱了,自控能力随之下降,一旦遇有欲望不能得到及时满足的情况。就可能发生种种心理失衡,及至干出许多出格的事来。 Nowadays, parents are mostly spoiled with only one child and all kinds of requests made to children are always “quick-service” to meet their needs in time. As time passes, children are used to life in a very comfortable and smooth environment. Their emotional will may be vulnerable to “calcium deficiency.” Their capacity for self-control will then drop. In the event of a desire, they will not be able to meet their needs in time. It is possible that various psychological imbalances may occur and many extraordinary things come to fruition.