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我和老伴年龄悬殊,文化程度有差别,性格也完全不同。年轻时夫妻两地分居,每年在一起不过一月四十天,矛盾来不及显露。退休后我们得以长厮守,生活中不和谐的音符逐渐暴露出来。一段时间里,我委屈,他生气,实在是因为年纪大了,不然,真想『另辟蹊径』。后来有一件事,使我改变了这种看法。前不久,老伴去郑州探望老母走了十天。头两天还没甚感觉,第三天就觉得憋闷起来。
My husband and I have disparities in age, different degrees of education, and completely different personalities. When young couple separated from each other, but together every year, but January forty days, too late to reveal the contradictions. We were able to stay together after retirement, and discordant notes in life were gradually revealed. For some time, I was wronged. He was angry because he was really old. Otherwise, he really wanted to find another way out. One thing later led me to change that view. Not long ago, his wife went to Zhengzhou to visit her mother for ten days. Not feeling the first two days, the third day feel oppressed.