心理学认为,冲突能促进个体变化、适应和发展,尤其在社会认知的发展上。冲突不仅有助于认知的发展,而且有助于提高个体与他人合作的能力。确实,假如儿童在生活中真的一点冲突都没有,这对儿童的发展未必是好事。但如果儿童处于太多的冲突之中,又会导致儿童出现 Psychology believes that conflict can promote individual change, adaptation and development, especially in the development of social cognition. Conflicts not only contribute to the development of cognition, but also help to improve the individual’s ability to cooperate with others. Indeed, if children do not really have any real conflicts in their lives, this may not be a good thing for children’s development. But if children are in too many conflicts, they can lead to children