一、不要只盯着孩子的缺点 活泼、爱动、调皮、淘气是孩子的天性，因此，有很多家长和老师，特别注意他们的言谈举止。一有调皮行为就严加批评，甚至经常用“好”与“坏”去评价孩子。我认为用“坏”这个词去评价一个孩子，有欠妥当，这样极易挫伤孩子的自尊心，会使孩子对自己 First, do not just stare at the shortcomings of children lively, love moving, naughty, naughty child's nature, therefore, there are many parents and teachers, paying particular attention to their behavior. A naughty act on the strict criticism, and often use “good” and “bad” to evaluate children. I think using the word “bad” to evaluate a child is not proper, which can easily hurt the child's self-esteem and make the child feel sorry for himself