1用“我怎样”表达观点吵架时最好用第一人称表达观点,比如“我觉得你伤害到我了”“我觉得你的意思是……”强调这只是你的个人感受。2说活直截了当冷嘲热讽、指桑骂槐,很难让对方了解你到底哪里不满意、想要做什么。要想解决争议,最好直接切入重点,明确说出你的想法。3不要拿隐私说事就算争吵很激烈,也要避免谈及对方的隐私或一些私人问题。违背这一点,只会辜负和牺牲别人的信任,让你因小失大。 1 use “I ” Feel 2 that live straightforward cynicism, refers to Swear Huai, it is difficult for each other to understand where you are not satisfied, what you want to do. If you want to resolve the dispute, it is best to go directly to the key points and clearly state your thoughts. 3 Do not talk about privacy Even if the argument is fierce, but also to avoid talking about each other’s privacy or some private issues. To violate this, will only live up to and sacrifice the trust of others, so that you lost.